I have a really bad girl problem. me.

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The discussion revolves around a user who developed a crush on a girl named Haley but mistakenly asked her out on behalf of his friend Zayne, who also likes her. The user expresses regret over this blunder and seeks advice on how to rectify the situation. Responses suggest he should be honest about his feelings and clarify the misunderstanding with Haley. Some participants humorously critique the situation, while others emphasize the importance of direct communication and moving on if things don't work out. The conversation also touches on the dynamics of high school relationships and the challenges of navigating romantic interests, with some users sharing their own experiences and offering light-hearted commentary. Overall, the thread highlights the common teenage struggles with crushes and the awkwardness of asking someone out.
Gothic_Freddy
I sort of have a girl problem.

I was at the mall with my old lady to buy the FPS game legendary when i ran into a girl named Haley. I Thought nothing of her at school, but when I saw her here something changed inside of me. I started to develop a crush on the 5'10 goth/punk. The next day I told my friend Zayne. He said he kinda liked her.

My relationship with Haley grew from there. We started to hang out and talk a lot more. So today I was going to ask her out. At lunch I got nervous and decided to wait till after school.

When I walked up to her, I got nervous again. I poked her shoulder many times like an immature child. I wanted to say "Haley, will you go out with me?" But instead i Said "Haley, Zayne wants to know if you will go out with him." "Sure." She said. Major screwup. What should I do? I need Help.
 
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Who is "your old lady"? I've always heard that in reference to a man's wife. You're married?
 
next time you see her, ask if she will go with tom, dick and harry, if she says yes you have your ansewer.
 
Just tell the truth. Tell her that your friend does like her and wants to go out with her and then tell her you do too and you chickened out and asked her out for your friend instead of yourself.

Then run away before Cyrus sees this thread.
 
Evo said:
Who is "your old lady"? I've always heard that in reference to a man's wife. You're married?

I think he means his mom.

I'm just sitting back and waiting for Cyrus to arrive. :biggrin:
 
Your best chance now is to make Zayne look like a loser who is too shy to ask her himself. For ideas on how to do this read 'The Courtship of Miles Standish', by Longfellow and 'Cyrano De Bergerac' by Rostand.
 
Stay away! Women are evil.

My advice is that if you get any urges you can't suppress with hard liquor, give yourself a hand.
 
Moonbear said:
I think he means his mom.
I certainly hope so.

I'm just sitting back and waiting for Cyrus to arrive. :biggrin:
Cyrus does love these threads.
 
  • #10
I'll be 100% honest with you. There's a good chance she's already friend zoned you. However, you will hate yourself if you don't find out. Getting rejected doesn't even matter the next day. You may potentially never get over it if you never find out. Just do ittttttt. Tell her the truth.

You're in high school right? Are you usually good with women?
 
  • #11
If i had an old lady i would ask her to wear my colors and take her for a burn up on my Honda 50.
 
  • #12
Can you have a burn up on a Honda 50?
 
  • #13
moose said:
Are you usually good with women?

Judging by the thread, I'm going with no.
 
  • #14
It doesn't sound that bad...at all really. Just come out to her and correct your mistake...
 
  • #15
Kurdt said:
Can you have a burn up on a Honda 50?


Only if you hate them and have marshmallows.
 
  • #16
Buy her some really dark eye shadow. Goth girls love that stuff.
 
  • #17
jimmysnyder said:
Your best chance now is to make Zayne look like a loser who is too shy to ask her himself. For ideas on how to do this read 'The Courtship of Miles Standish', by Longfellow and 'Cyrano De Bergerac' by Rostand.


:smile:
 
  • #18
You have zero post count. That means you came here for girl advice. This is a physics forum. Go away.

This is what I think of all these girl threads:

 
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  • #19
Gothic_Freddy said:
I sort of have a girl problem.

I was at the mall with my old lady to buy the FPS game legendary when i ran into a girl named Haley. I Thought nothing of her at school, but when I saw her here something changed inside of me. I started to develop a crush on the 5'10 goth/punk. The next day I told my friend Zayne. He said he kinda liked her.

My relationship with Haley grew from there. We started to hang out and talk a lot more. So today I was going to ask her out. At lunch I got nervous and decided to wait till after school.

When I walked up to her, I got nervous again. I poked her shoulder many times like an immature child. I wanted to say "Haley, will you go out with me?" But instead i Said "Haley, Zayne wants to know if you will go out with him." "Sure." She said. Major screwup. What should I do? I need Help.

jimmysnyder said:
Your best chance now is to make Zayne look like a loser who is too shy to ask her himself. For ideas on how to do this read 'The Courtship of Miles Standish', by Longfellow and 'Cyrano De Bergerac' by Rostand.

First thing to do is to follow jimmysnyder's advice.

Second thing is to ask Cyrus for fashion advice. He'll hook you right up.

Third thing is to find someone to give this poor girl some fashion advice. Goth/punk?
 
  • #20
BobG said:
someone to give this poor girl some fashion advice. Goth/punk?
Hey, you're from the older generation, quiet! lol I had a brief thing (as in a week, leading up to homecoming) with a girl nick named Stripes due to her black and white one inch stripes in her hair, she was fine.
 
  • #21
You're right, you do have a really bad girl problem.

Namely, that you need to stop acting like one and grow a pair. :)
 
  • #22
You have zero post count. That means you came here for girl advice. This is a physics forum. Go away.

I think it is a fine idea to ask for girl advice on a physics forum. A fine idea, indeed.
 
  • #23
Renge Ishyo said:
I think it is a fine idea to ask for girl advice on a physics forum. A fine idea, indeed.

I hope that is sarcasm.
 
  • #24
Put on some black nail polish and write her a really depressing and self deprecating poem about it. Goth chicks love that stuff. ;-p


But seriously, if your friend likes her and you have now set him up for a date with her then step out of it. Your mistake. Live with it. If you're in high school you have plenty of time to figure out how not to make an a** of yourself in front of girls.
 
  • #25
Accept your losses and move on. No point on dwelling on this. You'll meet other girls. It's not worth going through the trouble in making your friend look like a fool so she dumps him, especially if she then says she doesn't want to go out with your or worse, finds out you're the jerk who did all that stuff to his friend.

Next time you'll know not to do this. Haha, or you could have said "Zayne wants to know if you'll go out with me."
 
  • #26
SticksandStones said:
You're right, you do have a really bad girl problem.

Namely, that you need to stop acting like one and grow a pair. :)


That made me lol.


I'm not from this forum either, just stopping by randomly cause google images lead me here randomly.. yeah.. don't ask.. I'm bored on my night shift.


What you need to do.

1. Talk to her ASAP.
2. Don't sound panicky or scared or timid. What girl wants to date a guy like that?
3. Admit you made a mistake and ask her out to do something with you.. and have something in mind to do.. like.. ****... idk how old you are so that kind of limits stuff. If you are younger than 21, dinner/movie/mall/whatever. Older than 21, find some friends (not sure how many you have) and go to a bar or club.. preferably a goth one.. haha. shoot..
4. Then just play it cool. If she smokes, she pokes. If she's goth, she's probably a freak..ya know..

Don't worry man.. just man up, and get to it. Peace.
 
  • #27
Problem? I always liked really bad girls. But then I was Catholic.
 
  • #28
Renge Ishyo said:
I think it is a fine idea to ask for girl advice on a physics forum. A fine idea, indeed.

:smile::smile::smile:

Just remember: Tell her she has beautiful eyes (if you can see them through all that eye shadow).
 
  • #29
And don't mention that her nose looks like an ice pick
 
  • #30
Make sure you talk about physics all the time, girls love that!
 
  • #31
BobG said:
First thing to do is to follow jimmysnyder's advice.

Second thing is to ask Cyrus for fashion advice. He'll hook you right up.

Third thing is to find someone to give this poor girl some fashion advice. Goth/punk?

binzing said:
Hey, you're from the older generation, quiet! lol I had a brief thing (as in a week, leading up to homecoming) with a girl nick named Stripes due to her black and white one inch stripes in her hair, she was fine.

The three worst fashion decisions:

3. Doramad toothpaste. Its radioactive radiation increases the defenses of teeth and gums. The cells are loaded with new life energy, the bacteria are hindered in their destroying effect. This explains the excellent prophylaxis and healing process with gingival diseases. It gently polishes the dental enamel so it turns white and shiny. Prevents dental calculus. Wonderful lather and a new, pleasant, mild and refreshing taste. Can be applied sparingly.

2. http://www.oobject.com/radioactive-products/tho-radia-radium-beauty-cream/1253/ facial cream. Gives the face such a healthy glow. Drawback: Turning the lights off won't improve her appearance.

1. Goth/punk


Actually, all three of these pale in comparison to the scrotal radiendoctrinator and the radium suppositories, but those products were the early 20th century version of Viagra, not fashion products. http://www.environmentalgraffiti.com/offbeat-news/10-radioactive-products-that-people-actually-used/1388

Radium chocolate might help your chances. Women always love chocolate.
 
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  • #32
Ivan Seeking said:
Problem? I always liked really bad girls. But then I was Catholic.
When I went to college (from a really small town), one of the first girls I fell in with was VP of an SDS chapter in Maine's largest city. She was averse to underwear- pretty much jeans and T-shirts.


I loved that era.
 
  • #33
turbo-1 said:
When I went to college (from a really small town), one of the first girls I fell in with was VP of an SDS chapter in Maine's largest city. She was averse to underwear- pretty much jeans and T-shirts. I loved that era.
What's SDS? Googling turns up Student Disability Service or Students for a Democratic Society?? Not sure what either of them would have to do with her aversion to underwear though.
 
  • #34
Art said:
What's SDS? Googling turns up Student Disability Service or Students for a Democratic Society?? Not sure what either of them would have to do with her aversion to underwear though.
The latter. We would argue (or not) into the night about politics, war, etc, and generally find some common ground somewhere (but without underwear).
 
  • #35
Make sure you talk about physics all the time, girls love that!

Better yet, he can talk about physics with his friend. If his friend becomes interested he will become a nerd, and without even knowing it the friend will start excreting that natural "nerd repellent" that keeps girls away. After that, the girl will turn away from the friend and go for the original poster! Mwahaha
 
  • #36
Hey, look on the bright side. If you're still in high school, if you actually asked her out, you probably would have broken up in a couple months anyway (if she didn't dump you after the first date). So, at least this way it was all done in your own control rather than her dumping you. :wink: Really, just move on. Girlfriends and boyfriends come and go in high school. Each time you screw it up with one, you learn something more about relationships for the next one until you finally meet the one where it counts.
 
  • #37
Moonbear said:
Each time you screw it up with one, you learn something more about relationships for the next one until you finally meet the one where it counts.
No comment. When I was that age, women were like trolleys, another one came along every 5 minutes. Now that I have improved a few years, they are like trolleys, forever raising a racket.
 
  • #38
jimmysnyder said:
No comment. When I was that age, women were like trolleys, another one came along every 5 minutes. Now that I have improved a few years, they are like trolleys, forever raising a racket.

Yeah, but you finally figured out where the trolley stop was and where to hop on. Much better than when you were getting passed by every 5 min without knowing how to even find the stop. :biggrin:
 
  • #39
No comment. When I was that age, women were like trolleys, another one came along every 5 minutes. Now that I have improved a few years, they are like trolleys, forever raising a racket.

The cost of the ticket for the trolley seems to increase substantially later on in life too. Its sort of like those variable mortgages that crashed the economy...get into one thinking its a good deal, and then a few years later the rates seem to go higher and higher until you can no longer afford one.
 
  • #40
Note to self: To get laid, learn what a trolley is.
 
  • #41
Renge Ishyo said:
The cost of the ticket for the trolley seems to increase substantially later on in life too. Its sort of like those variable mortgages that crashed the economy...get into one thinking its a good deal, and then a few years later the rates seem to go higher and higher until you can no longer afford one.

This is why you never upgrade from girlfriend to wife (it's like upgrading to Vista, only worse). Also, trying to downgrade back to girlfriend will cost you quite a bit.

Reminds me of a joke I heard from Bill Handel once about how every morning he checks to see what it will cost him to trade Marorie in for a young blonde and every day he realizes he can't afford it.
 
  • #42
franznietzsche said:
This is why you never upgrade from girlfriend to wife (it's like upgrading to Vista, only worse). Also, trying to downgrade back to girlfriend will cost you quite a bit.

Only Franz Nietzsche would say that one!
 
  • #43
franznietzsche said:
Also, trying to downgrade back to girlfriend will cost you quite a bit.

Yeah, that one is notorious for deleting all your bank accounts.
 
  • #44
Moonbear said:
Yeah, but you finally figured out where the trolley stop was and where to hop on. Much better than when you were getting passed by every 5 min without knowing how to even find the stop. :biggrin:
Yeah, I got a commuter pass. I asked the conductor how much a downgrade would cost. She said if you have to ask, you can't afford it.
 
  • #45
Note to self: To get laid, learn what a trolley is.

See, you can learn all sorts of useful things here on PF.
 
  • #46
Well...if you are in a relationship now, you need to dump the other girl before you ask a new one out.
 
  • #47
mcknia07 said:
Well...if you are in a relationship now, you need to dump the other girl before you ask a new one out.

I think the "official guys and rats rule book" states that you dump girl one only after girl two goes out on several dates with said guy. This gives guys and rats more options.
 
  • #48
edward said:
I think the "official guys and rats rule book" states that you dump girl one only after girl two goes out on several dates with said guy. This gives guys and rats more options.

Ahh, ok...this must be the reasoning behind every guys thinking...very rational...
 
  • #49
mcknia07 said:
Ahh, ok...this must be the reasoning behind every guys thinking...very rational...

Fortunately not every guy plays by the "guys and rats rule book". I am sure that there are still a few keepers out there.
 
  • #50
BobG said:
The three worst fashion decisions:

...

1. Goth/punk

I dated a gorgeous goth girl. She was a professional, worked in an office, so she didn't dress in a way out there fashion or wear a lot of make up or anything like that. She would dress in 'gothier' clothes sometimes when she went out but generally just wore lots of black and darker colours... oh and boots.
I wasn't able to find any pics that look much like her but this might give you an idea...
http://www.georgeledger.co.uk/images/people/goth%20girl%20in%20grave%20yard.jpg
 
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