DrGreg said:
I think you are confusing "metric space" and "metric tensor". They are separate concepts which just happen to share the same name "metric". As I understand it, the metric space structure of a manifold is the topology inherited via coordinate charts from Euclidean \mathbb{R}^4.
You mean the right thing, but I want to be pedantic here. A manifold has (a priori) only a topological structure (and a smooth structure which is not interesting here). Not every topological space induces a metric space, but in a manifold that is the case. So we can show that there exists a distance function such that the topology generated by that distance function (meaning, the topology generated by the open balls ##\{x\in M~\vert~d(x,a)<r\}##) is the original manifold topology.
I can already see this thread is going to be confusing because the word metric is used in two senses. So, I propose the following terminology:
1) A metric always means a metric tensor.
2) A distance function on a set ##X## is a function ##d:X\times X\rightarrow \mathbb{R}## such that ##d(x,y)=0## if and only if ##x=y##, ##d(x,y) = d(y,x)## and ##d(x,z)\leq d(x,y) + d(y,x)##. (Analogous definitions for pseudo-distance function)
3) A distance space is a pair ##(X,d)## where ##X## is a set and ##d## is a distance function on ##X##. (Analogous definition for pseudo-distance space).
So I propose never to use the word "metric space" in this thread, or never to use the word "metric" when it actually means a distance function.
So the OP asks us whether a pseudo-Riemannian manifold is
a) A distance space
b) A pseudo-distance space
c) Neither
The question that I want to ask for the OP is which distance function ##d## he is considering concretely.