(1) Assuming ##\lambda = 1##, the second condition ##2y = 4 \lambda y## gives ##2y = 4y##, so ##y = 0##. The constraint then implies ##x = \pm 1##.
Sometimes, knowing ##\lambda## is almost as important as knowing ##x## and ##y##, so knowing ##\lambda = 1## may be needed for certain types of ongoing analysis. Maybe at this stage you do not yet see its importance, but be assured, it is important.
(2) There are two methods for dealing with equality-constrained optimization: (a) the Lagrange multiplier method; and (b) elimination of variables via the constraint(s).
The normally-preferred method is (a); it is the basis of numerous effective numerical optimization codes, in which various steps towards improved solutions often involve not only the current estimates of the variables ##x,y,\ldots## but also the current estimates of the Lagrange multipliers. Doing things this way can speed up the accuracy and reliability of algorithms by orders of magnitude. So, Lagrange multipliers are of huge importance in the field (despite what some may try to tell you).
However, in certain, special cases, (b) may be easier and faster. In your problem, you can see that feasible ##(x,y)## satisfy ##-1 \leq y \leq 1##, and for any ##y## in that interval we must have ##x^2 = 1 - y^2##. Therefore, on the constraint set we have ##f(x,y) = x^2 + 2 y^2 = 1-y^2 + 2 y^2 = 1+y^2##. The problem becomes one-dimensional: ##\max / \min (1+y^2), \; -1 \leq y \leq 1##. Obviously, the (global) min is at ##y = 0## (giving ##x = \pm 1##) while the global maxima are at ##y = \pm 1## (giving ##x = 0##).
Usually method (a) is preferred over method (b), but sometimes for problems having special structure a method like (b) is easier.