I'm just learning this concept myself, so feel free to correct any mistakes I've made. The vector (cross) product physically means how much of an applied force is going into rotating an particle/object about an axis (xy plane will be action plane and z-axis will be axis of rotation). In the example of using a wrench to rotate a bolt, the cross product \vec{r} X \vec{F} is the torque \tau, which is how hard the bolt is being twisted by your applied force (your push on the wrench). The \vec{r} is the position vector from the bolt to the end of the wrench (along the x-axis), and the \vec{F} is the applied force you pushing on the end of the wrench (at the terminal point of \vec{r} and at some angle \theta from the x-axis). \tau = \vec{r} X \vec{F} = rFsin\theta\vec{n}, where \vec{n} is the unit normal vector that is perpendicular to the action plane (\vec{n} is along z-axis) and r (length of wrench) and F are the magnitudes of their respective vectors. What rFsin\theta\vec{n} tells us is that for a longer wrench (bigger r) there is more torque on the bolt, and also the component of the force acting to rotate the wrench (Fsin\theta) is greater when \theta is closer to \left|\pm90|. When pushing wrench at an angle 0\leq\theta\leq90, you will be pushing the wrench and rotating the bolt in the anticlockwise direction from the x-axis, which is represented by the \vec{n} pointing toward you along the z-axis. Also, since sin(-\theta) = -sin\theta, when pushing the wrench at an angle -90\leq\theta\leq0, then you will be pushing the wrench and rotating the bolt in the clockwise direction from the x-axis. The negative sign from -sin\theta represents the direction of the \vec{n}, which this time is pointing away from you along the negative z-axis. So, the angle of the applied force not only determines how much of your push is going into twisting the bolt, but also whether sin\theta, and therefore \vec{n}, is positive or negative, and the sign of \vec{n} tells us which direction (anticlockwise or clockwise) you are rotating the bolt. \vec{n} doesn't tell you if the bolt is moving out or in the z direction (tightening or loosening), all it tells you (by it's sign) is if the bolt is being rotated anticlockwise or clockwise wrt the action plane. The magnitude of torque (how much of your push on the wrench is going into rotating the bolt) is represented by rF\left|sin\theta|, and is independent of the direction of rotation. Hope this helps.