kfx said:
My guess is that the speed is relative to a static observer.
I did post a similar question today.
https://www.physicsforums.com/showthread.php?t=445534
Although it got few good replies, I found out that in
http://www.nature.com/nature/journal/v454/n7206/full/nature07121.html got it completely right)
To my understanding, the theoretical speed of "spooky action at distance" is indeed infinite. The experimentally measured speed is at least 10'000 times the speed of light.
The problem is that there's no such thing as a "stationary observer".
Take the example of the train that's hit by two bolts of lightning, one at the front and one at the back of the train. To an observer standing next to the track, the two strikes happened simultaneously. To someone on board the train, the one at the front happened first. Both are right. You may say that the observer standing next to the train is "stationary", but what about a train that's going from east to west over the equator at 1667 km/h? I'm sure we'll agree that the train is stationary while the Earth is spinning underneath it, right? Unless you take into account the movement of the Earth around the sun, the sun around the center of our galaxy, etc...
The whole point of relativity is that ANY observer may consider himself to be stationary.
If two events happen at the same time for one observer, they will happen at different times for someone else. If something travels "faster than light" or even "infinitely quickly" for one observer, you will easily find a different observer who will say the events did not happen at the same time, the information traveled at a snail-like pace, or even traveled backward (the second particle choosing its state
before the first one was measured).
And you can't say "this observer is right, and the other is wrong, because the first one was stationary". Again, that's the whole point of relativity.
Go back to the train example again, only now someone measures a particle at the back of the train while the entangled particle is at the front. If the two took their definite state at exactly the same time for someone on the train (hence, the information traveled infinitely quickly for them), someone standing next to the train would say (correctly!) that the particle in front took its state maybe one second later than the measurement at the back, and therefore the information traveled at a very finite speed equal to the length of the train divided by one second.
The only "preferred" reference frame I can imagine, is one determined by the source emitting the two particles. You can't even take the reference frames of the observers, because then you can get into a race condition with two observers with different speeds each claiming quite rightfully to be the first to make the measurement.
The other option, of course, is that you cannot define a time "when" the decoherence occurred. But I'll get into that in a separate reply to someone else's post.