sophiecentaur said:
I still can't see how you can think that the answer is in a 'quasi steady state' approach.
It's true, of course, that the energy in an undamped, undriven system will remain the same. Clearly, the mass on spring model is trivial and we both agree that you can look at a small time window if we want. But why?
If there are two ideal oscillators, there will be some time period (lowest common denominator or whatever you'd call it and it could be a very long time if you choose the numbers right) over which the behaviour will repeat. But, again, how does this help with understanding of what goes on within that cycle? Energy is exchanged from one to the other and both natural modes will be in existence, with ever changing shares of the energy.
To deal with a driven oscillator, you absolutely have to involve some loss as there is no steady state outcome without it. I still cannot see how any analysis of a driven, damped system can lead to an oscillation that involves two frequencies. You will need to write it out or reference it for me before I can accept it. The idea goes against what I have always though to be an obvious bit of bookwork. I found
this on the first hit of a Google search
But you agree that there will be a transient response consisting of two frequencies, so if we are in time frame where the transient signal is appreciable, then we are not in steady state. The undamped oscillator does not necessarily approximate a steady state, it approximates the behavior in a window at any time, where the width of the window is much smaller than the damping time. It may contain both frequencies if the window is in the transient regime. If the phenomenon you are looking at can be profitably analyzed inside such a window, then consideration of undamped oscillators will give good results. For a single guitar string, the damping time is a matter of seconds and there is no steady state except zero. For the resonance phenomenon to occur, only a few, maybe tens of cycles are needed. So using an undamped oscillator as a model is profitable.
To get more mathematical, a damped, driven oscillator is characterized by the driving amplitude A, driving frequency \omega, resonant frequency of undamped oscillator \omega_0, damping constant \gamma, and two constants C_1 and C_2 which modify the phase and amplitude of the transient signal. For \gamma<1, the transient signal frequency is sinusoidal with a frequency of \omega_0 \sqrt{1-\gamma^2}. Let's call the signal of the damped oscillator X[A,\omega,\omega_0,\gamma,C_1,C_2], with \gamma=0 being an undamped oscillator. What I am saying is, if you look only in a window that is short compared to the damping time, you can choose A', C_1' and C_2' for an undamped oscillator such that X[A',\omega,\omega_0,0,C_1',C_2'] closely approximates X[A,\omega,\omega_0,\gamma,C_1,C_2] inside that window - the rms error is small compared to the signal.
This is useful because if you have a case where the damping is small (\gamma<<1) then you can have a window that is short with respect to the damping time, yet contains many cycles. For a single guitar string, the damping time is much longer than the vibration period and so you can model it as an undamped oscillator over many cycles (but not too many) and I would expect the mathematics is considerably easier.
Extending this to the two coupled damped oscillators, no driving, their response is characterized by X[A_1,\omega_1,\gamma1,C_{11},C_{12}, A_2,\omega_2,\gamma2,C_{21},C_{22}] where the driving frequencies have been eliminated and the undamped resonant frequencies of the two oscillators are \omega_1 and \omega_2. The case of two damped coupled oscillators with no other driving force is totally transient - there is no steady state. If the damping is small, then inside any window small with respect to the damping time of both oscillators, you can well approximate the situation by two coupled undamped oscillators. Here, I am saying the same thing - if f you look only in a window that is short compared to the damping time, you can choose A_1', C_{11}', C_{12}', A_2', C_{21}' and C_{22}' for a pair of coupled, undamped oscillators such that X[A_1',\omega_1,0,C_{11}',C_{12}', A_2',\omega_2,0,C_{21}',C_{22}'] closely approximates X[A_1,\omega_1,\gamma1,C_{11},C_{12}, A_2,\omega_2,\gamma2,C_{21},C_{22}] inside that window - the rms error is small compared to the signal. The beat frequency may or may not cover many cycles inside that window, but nevertheless, it will be a good approximation.
I see nothing in the link you provided that contradicts this. As far as references go, I don't have any, but I hopefully could find them. I say hopefully, because I am now beyond my notes, trying to figure things out with Mathematica and blurting out my present understanding of things, which may be in error. What I would find interesting is a reference that contradicts these conclusions. Even more interesting, a good argument against the conclusions. Your arguments have not changed my intuition, but have sharpened it considerably.