MikeGomez said:
I don’t have a problem with the statement that gravity is spacetime curvature, because I don’t feel the need to qualify that with “tidal” gravity.
I'm not sure this is a good policy on your part.

See below.
MikeGomez said:
We had the discussion in earlier posts that no uniform gravitational field exists and I assumed that was true because nobody challenged it, and that indicates to me that all gravity is tidal.
The "gravity" that makes a rock fall locally on the surface of a planet is not tidal gravity, as I have already said. But the term "gravity" is very commonly used to refer to this phenomenon, so the statement "all gravity is tidal" is, at the very least, liable to cause confusion.
It is true, AFAIK, that "no uniform gravitational field exists" in the sense that there is no known solution to the Einstein Field Equation that can correctly be described as a "uniform gravitational field". But going from that to "all gravity is tidal" is a logic error; the only correct logical deduction you can make from it is "all gravitational fields are non-uniform". (We're also assuming here that the term "gravitational field" has an unambiguous meaning, which is not really true; that term also has multiple meanings in the literature.) As I noted just now, there are phenomena taking place in non-uniform gravitational fields which are referred to as "gravity" but are not "tidal gravity".
MikeGomez said:
If spacetime curvature is present globally then it seems to me it must exist locally.
The term "locally" is yet another term with multiple meanings. In one sense of the term, spacetime curvature is indeed local, since it is described by a tensor, the Riemann tensor, and tensors are "local" objects--they are defined in the tangent space at each point of spacetime.
However, in another sense of "local", spacetime curvature is not local, because it involves second derivatives of the metric, and in a small enough patch of spacetime around a given point, we can always adopt coordinates (local inertial coordinates) in which the effects of second derivatives of the metric are negligible. But phenomena that are referred to as "gravity" are still detectable in that small patch of spacetime--for example, bricks fall when dropped in an accelerating rocket, and this can be described, within a local inertial frame, as the rocket accelerating upward while the brick remains at rest, just as a brick falling on Earth can be described, in a local inertial frame, as the surface of the Earth accelerating upward while the brick remains at rest. All of this holds even though the effects of second derivatives of the metric are negligible within a local inertial frame, i.e., spacetime curvature is not "local" in this sense.
MikeGomez said:
some of which have an effect locally in a area where the separation is small enough that the EP holds.
No effects of spacetime curvature are detectable in a patch of spacetime small enough that the EP holds. That is the definition of what "small enough" means in terms of the EP--if any effects of spacetime curvature are detectable, it means you aren't focusing on a small enough patch of spacetime for the EP to apply.
MikeGomez said:
spacetime curvature, at least of the form that is present around an ordinary spherical planet, disappears in this limit”
We should probably drop that particular example, since I've already said several times that AFAIK it doesn't correspond to any valid solution of the EFE. Saying that "well, you just take a spherical planet and take the limit as its radius goes to infinity" doesn't mean that limit corresponds to anything valid.
MikeGomez said:
Could you please discuss a little about this non-tidal gravity which makes things fall to the floor locally.
See above.
One other note: you appear to me to be getting hung up on terminology instead of focusing on the physics. This is one reason why discussions of this sort are best done with math, not ordinary language. The math underlying everything I've said is completely unambiguous, and raises no awkward questions about what "gravity" means or what "local" means or what "spacetime curvature" means.