Rade said:
If I place a coin in a box, and shake, is the coin: (1) alive (heads) or dead (tails) or (2) alive (heads) and dead (tails) ? imo, the correct answer is both (1) and (2) at the same moment of time and space. When you open the box you observe either heads or tails facing you, thus # 1 answer is correct. But at all times, whether observed or not, the coin has both head and tail aspects, thus # 2 answer is also equally correct at any time, including the time you observe when you open the box. I view this what Schrödinger was trying to say with the cat problem--that is, at the very same moment of time and space, the cat is a dialectic superposition of two opposite states (1) it is alive or dead and (2) it is alive and dead, thus [or state + and state ] = quantum reality.
The problem with a lot of these discussions is a confusion between epistemological issues and physical issues. Bohr's approach is epistemic rather than physical. And that's why Einstein had problems following it. To illustrate using your example
First, by definition if the coin is showing heads, it MUST not be showing tails.
ie. heads = not(tails) and not(heads) = tails. heads and tails are mutually exclusive PHYSICAL STATES. However, heads and tails are not mutually exclusive EPISTEMIC states.
Within the box, only one state can exist. Within the mind however, without adequate information (the box has not been opened), both states can have a certain probability adding up to 1. With absolutely no extra information, each physical state, will have an epistemic probability within the mind of 0.5 (heads=0.5, tails=0.5). Thus the "wavefunction" has two superposed states. The moment you open the box, you now have complete information "heads" for example, and the wave function collapses to a single point (heads=1, tails=0). Nothing is happening in the system, but a lot is happening in your mind.
The moment you start confusing epistemic states with physical states, you start contradicting yourself. Fortunately, or rather unfortunately, if you had a million coins in the box, you will notice that the physical state matches very closely the epistemic state of and opening the box does not give you any significant extra information.
This is fortunate in the sense that most quantum phenomena to date have been studied using ensembles of large numbers of individual entities. And this is the only reason the faulty copenhagen interpretation has appeared to work to date.
It is unfortunate because to date, QM continues to be paradoxical and unclear when explaining phenomena involving individual particles.