Roger - this is not an easy thing to explain in a forum like this. Part of the problem is that you're taking an algebra-based physics course. It may not seem it right now, but calculus-based physics is so much easier. There, to get the equations you mention, all you need are the definitions of the terms and a little integration.
However: Let's start with definitions. You know that acceleration is the rate of change of velocity. If we assume a constant acceleration, then, we can get the acceleration by dividing the change in velocity by the time:
a = (v - u)/t
Solving for v, we get the first of your equations:
v = u + at
For your second, remember the definition of average velocity: average velocity is displacement over time. If the acceleration is constant, then you can also get the average velocity by averaging the initial and the final velocities. Let V_ be the average velocity (and one day I'll figure out who to write it properly here), then we have:
V_ = s/t
and, under constant acceleration,
V_ = (u + v)/2
So,
(u + v)/2 = s/t
which, when solved for s, gives
s = (u + v)t/2
your second equation.
To get your third equation, take your second and substitute into it for v:
s = (u + v)t/2 = (u + u + at)t/2 = (2ut + at^2)/2
So,
s = ut + (1/2)at^2
You'll note, then, that the first two come straight from definitions (plus, in the second case, an assumption). The third comes from the first two - which means that, technically, you don't need it. You can get the proper results by using the first two. You're given the third one because sometimes it's easier to see your way clear to an answer if you don't have to go through too many steps.
Please note that there are other, better ways to derive all of these equations. In particular, there is a geometric approach to the third one that I like a lot. However, it's hard to do that one without being able to draw a lot of diagrams. For right now, just concentrate on the differences between position, velocity, and acceleration, and the relationships between them.
Hope this helps.