No. Your condition on the plane x/a+ y/b+ z/c= 1 is that it contains the point (1,1,1).
Your condition is that g(a,b,c)= 1/a+ 1/b+ 1/c= 1 Yes, all of this is good. Well, it would have been better to show how you got that, but, yes, a= b= c= 3 is correct.
No. (x, y, z) would be a point on the plane. You want to determine which plane which means you want to find a, b, and c. Yes, that's fine. In fact often the best way of solving such problems is to immediately eliminate \lambda by dividing your equations. Your condition is that the two gradients are parallel- their individual lengths are not relevant. (lambda is the ratio of those two lengths.) Suppose a= A, some fixed large number and that b and c are the same. It is easy to show that b= c= 2A/(A-1)[/itex and so the volume would be<br />
\frac{1}{3}\frac{A^3}{(A-1)^2}<br />
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That goes to infinity as A goes to infinity and so there is NO maximum volume.