Yes I do see that G has order 8. But it is not easy for me, at this stage, to see that something like (1,1) has order 4, or (2,1) has order 2. THIS is what I lack. Some of my friends, and you, for instance, can just look at that and know its order...so how do you do it?
I don't know, maybe do a bunch of problems and it will start to come naturally two you. Well, I can give you the ideas but it's up to you to practice with them so they become natural. First, groups like \mathbb{Z}_{n_1} \times \mathbb{Z}_{n_2} \times \dots \times \mathbb{Z}_{n_k} are abelian. Secondly, any element (a_1, \dots , a_k) is just (a_1, 0, \dots , 0) + (0, a_2, 0, \dots , 0) + \dots + (0, \dots , 0, a_k ). Finally, if you have an element x_1x_2\dots x_k, or, using additive notation, x_1 + x_2 + \dots + x_k, the order of this element is the least common multiple of the order of each of the x_i. So, for example:
(1,1)
= (1,0)(0,1) [OR if you like additive notation, (1,0) + (0,1)]
The order of (1,0) in \mathbb{Z}_2 \times \mathbb{Z}_4 is just the order of 1 in \mathbb{Z}_2, and the order of (0,1) in \mathbb{Z}_2 \times \mathbb{Z}_4 is just the order of 1 in \mathbb{Z}_4. Those numbers are, respectively, 2 and 4, whose least common multiple is 4. If we're looking at (1,2), then we have (1,2) = (1,0) + (0,2) and the order of (1,0) in \mathbb{Z}_2 \times \mathbb{Z}_4 is the order of 1 in \mathbb{Z}_2, which is 2, and the order of 2 in \mathbb{Z}_4 is also 2. The least common multiple of 2 and 2 is 2.
So it depends on how quickly you can find the order of a single number in a single cyclic group, and how quickly you can find the least common multiple a pair (or more) of numbers. It's pretty easy to do the first thing. If you want to find the order of x in \mathbb{Z}_n, just compute n/gcd(n,x). Most of the time, though, you can just look at it and tell. You can tell easily that 2 has order 2 in \mathbb{Z}_4. Finding the lcm of some numbers is also generally not too tough. If you need a precise method for finding it, you can ask, or look it up at mathworld, but in most cases, it's something you can tell by looking at it, again, like the lcm of 2 and 4.