This calls for one of my lightning sketches.
In the top sketch I have shown what happens if you connect one terminal only of a resistor, or a capacitor or a wire to one pole of a battery.
The second terminal is not connected in each case.
I have done this via a switch and numbered the terminals as shown.
The battery voltage is V
b
Before we make the connection the voltage at terminals 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 and 6 are indeterminate.
In the first position the switch connects to the resistor leaving the cap and wire not connected,
So there is no change at the cap and wire ie their voltage remains indeterminate.
At the resistor, terminals 1 and 4 take on the battery voltage V
b.
When we connect the switch to the capacitor, the resistor looses its connenction to the battery and thus its voltage so terminals 1 and 4 are now indeterminate again.
Terminal 2 on the capacitor takes on the battery voltage V
b.
It has no charge at this stage just voltage.However the capacitor blocks terminal 5 from the battery so terminal 5 voltage remains indeterminate.
When we switch to the wire (terminal 3) terminal 2 on the capacitor looses its connection and its voltage becomes indeterminate. It has no charge to loose.
The whole of the wire including terminals 3 and 6 takes on the battery voltage V
b.
However it only the voltage changes in all the above. No charge moves, no current flows and in particular the capacitor is uncharged.
In the bottom sketch we repeat the experiment, but this time all the second terminals are connected to the other pole of the battery.
When we now set the switch to connect the resistor terminal 1 of the resistor takes on the battery voltage V
b. Terminal 3 on the resistor is connected to the other pole of the battery so charge moves and a current flows through the resistor. The voltage across the resistor is equal to the battery voltage V
b.
The charge flows continuously and evenly in time so there is no build up (or deficit) of charge anywhere.
Because there is no buildup of charge in the resistor, the voltage at terminal 1 becomes the same as the voltage at terminal 4 as soon as we disconnect by switching to the capacitor. There is no charge stored in the resistor to cut off and take away.
This time when we connect the switch to terminal 2 on the capacitor charge does move, but unevenly in time. The charge flows quickly at first and then ever more slowly collecting on the one plate of the capacitor since it is blocked from passing through the capacitor.
The accumulation of charge 'induces' a similar accumulation of opposite charge on the other plate of the capacitor. We say that charge has been separated and the capacitor is charged.
You can indeed now disconnect the capacitor and walk away with it and even cut it in half.
Finally if we switch to just the wire we have a short circuit which get as hot as my keyboard after typing all this.