The issue here is yu need to see the vector relationship of the two phases - you can not just ADD apparent power like that, sorry that is just not how it works.
The 1 A you show as L-N is not the same phase angle as L-L.
The wiring of the meter - and the specific connection of the Voltages and the CTs - sets an expected phase shift between the measurements.
In a meter set up with Phase CTs ( current) and L-N Voltages the calculation per phase has no phase shift due to the connections - BUT when you look at Phase to Phase (L-L) voltages vs the Phase CT - there is a 30 Degree shift in the SENSING - that the meter accounts for.
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I am quite sure if you look at REAL power (active) using data from the meter - they WILL sum properly.