Oh, I reposted into homework section, but let me write here as well.
2. Homework Equations
Divergence of field v at p is Sum dv(x)/dxi. Vield is a divergence free if dv(x)/dxi=0 for every x.
Divergence theorem: integral div v over S=integral v*n over dS where n is vector pointing out on dS (boundary of S).
3. The Attempt at a Solution
First I checked that the converse is true, i.e. if the vector field v has form (**) it is divergence free. That can be done by simple calculation div v and using that Aij is smooth so d^2 Aij/dxi*dx=d^2 Aij / dxj*dxi (i.e. order of differentiation does not matter) and we also use Aij+Aji=0.
My attempt was to use induction as noted in the pset, i.e. by using divergence theorem we get that integral v*n over dS for every closed surface. My idea was to somewhat relate this integral to a div free vector field over R^{n-1}, but I did not manage that.
Second thing I tried is to somehow integrate over line parallel to e^j and get non differential relationship between v and Aij, but I am not sure if that is a legitimate field and how to define Aij in that way properly.
Thanks for help!