Hello mmdts,
Allow me to add something to this. Gauss' Law can only be used in practice to
find the strength of the electric
field on a surface, if the surface is symmetrical with the charge. In other words, you can use Gauss' Law to
find the unknown \vec E only if the charge distribution is of one of the following:
- is spherically symmetric (points, spheres, etc.),
- is an infinite line charge (cylindrically symmetric, e.g., infinite lines, infinite cylinders, etc.), or
- is infinite plane charge (or infinite slab).
And that's pretty much it. And that's because those are the only cases where the magnitude of the electric field at the surface, | \vec E | = E, is a constant.
But Gauss' Law,
\oint_S \vec E \cdot \vec{dA}= \frac{Q_{enc}}{\varepsilon_0}
still holds true regardless of whether there is symmetry or not. :)
If you had an expression for \vec E for all space, and had a formula for an arbitrary shape/strangely shaped closed surface, you could find the charge inclosed within the surface, even if there was no symmetry at all. Sure, you may not be able to use Gauss'Law to
find \vec E in the case where you didn't already know it, but Guass' Law still holds true anyway. And if you did have an expression for \vec E you could use Gauss' Law to find the charge within.
This may be important here because in your original post you mentioned you were trying to find the
flux \Phi_E, not the field
E.
The flux through a flat, open (yet finite area
A) surface is \Phi_E = \vec E \cdot \vec A = EA \cos \theta. To visualize that, think of "electric field lines" passing through the surface. The flux is proportional to the number of electric field lines that pass through*.
You can do the same visualization with a closed surface and a charge somewhere inside. The total flux through the closed surface is [proportional to] the total number of field lines that "exit" of the surface, minus the number of field lines that "enter" the surface. (In other words, the flux through that surface is proportional to the
net number of electric field lines leaving the surface.)
Knowing what you know about electric fields being divergent, what does that tell you about the electric field lines leaving a spherical surface, even if you move the charge away from the center?
*(This analogy of "electric field lines" has its shortcomings. I don't mean to imply that electric fields really have a finite number of discrete lines. It's just an analogy to aid visualization.)