Whitedragon said:
Well think about this scenario. What if you are out on a nice lake in the middle of the night with a nice full moon lighting up the night. Then out of nowhere an alian ship decides to play a prank and zap the moon from the sky. Wouldn't the water recede from it's tide about 2 3/4 seconds before you see the moon dissapear?
The answer to this question is the same as the answer to the question of "what would happen if a charge suddenly disappeared" - would the force suddenly disappear? If so, wouldn't this indicate that light traveled faster than light?
The answer to both questions is that the question itself is no good, because mass cannot suddenly disappear without violating physical law, just as charge cannot disappear without violating physical law. Attempting to solve the resulting equations yields the result that the inital assumptions were invalid.
One can realistically perturb a charge (or a mass), and ask how fast the change in the resulting field propagates. This gives a theoretical speed of 'c' both for gravity and for light. (Actually this is an upper bound, but under most conditions fields are weak enough that 'c' is the right answer.)
There are currently no good measurements on the speed of gravity, just theory. There are of course numerous good measurements on the speed of light.
There were some recent attempts to measure the speed of gravity, but when one carefully analyzes them they have all failed. This is not to say that the speed of gravity cannot be measured - when LIGO gets to the point where it can actually detect gravitational waves, we need only compare the arival of the gravity waves from a cosmic event that emits both gravity waves and light (such as a binary star inspiral).
This is all mentioned in the sci.physics.faq on the speed of gravity
http://math.ucr.edu/home/baez/physics/Relativity/GR/grav_speed.html
The article on
"What is gravity" might also be of some interest.
http://math.ucr.edu/home/baez/physics/Relativity/GR/gravity.html
though it's not very detailed, it simply talks a bit about the idea of gravity as geodesic deviation.