Perhaps this will help. For the state of stress shown in the present problem (assumed to also be a homogeneous state of stress), here is a sketch of the variation of the actual shear stress vectors acting on a cylinder of the material (i.e., exerted by the material outside the cylinder on the surface of the cylinder). The small arrows correspond to a shear stress of magnitude 30 MPa. The large arrows correspond to a shear stress magnitude of 90 MPa. The dots correspond to a shear stress of magnitude 0 MPa, and are situated at the directions corresponding to the principal stresses.
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The large arrow in the lower right quadrant corresponds to the maximum shear stress vector at -55 degrees (i.e., it is tangent to the cylinder at -55 degrees). The large arrow in the upper right quadrant corresponds to the maximum shear stress vector at +35 degrees (i.e., it is tangent to the cylinder at +35 degrees). Note that the shear stress vector is varying in magnitude and direction over the surface of the cylinder.
Please study the figure carefully and see what you think. This is what the real shear stress distribution looks like, not the confusing picture provided by the Mohr circle.