Calculating tightening torque for bolts in valve packing involves using a torque wrench or measuring bolt elongation for accuracy. It's crucial to ensure the packing is compressed enough to seal without restricting the stem's movement, as excessive force can lead to premature failure, especially with softer materials like Teflon. The smoothness of the stem significantly impacts packing life and sealing ability under pressure. For metric threads, such as M6, understanding the relationship between torque and gland deflection is essential for achieving the desired compression without over-tightening. Accurate calculations of both torque and deflection can improve packing performance and longevity.