timetraveldude said:
The classic example of demonstrating the relativity of simultaneity uses bolts of lightning striking two places "simultaneously". When you do the same experiment with sound then all observers can determine which event occurred first because sound does not follow the 2nd postulate of SR.
You seem to me to be a bit confused. The fact that there is an atmosphere does appear at first glance to set up a specific coordinate system (it's not quite a frame because of various effects such as the rotation of the earth) that's at rest relative to the atmosphere.
In this coordinate system, it's possible to synchronize clocks. Unfortunately, the details of how this clock synchronization process works are going to depend on a large number of factors, including how the winds are blowing at that moment, because when you look closely, the atmosphere isn't at rest relative to itself.
So you haven't really defined a very useful or practical coordinate system at all so far.
If you manage to "fix up" your proposal to solve the problems of winds affecting how clocks are synchronized, you will still not have disproven relativity.
In fact, people already have a well defined system for synchronizing clocks on the Earth's surface. It's called, TAI time, which is a coordinate time. It's called a coordinate time because it sets up a coordinate system on the Earth's surface.
Now the next question is why you think that setting up a specific coodinate system with non-Einstenian clock synchronization somehow disproves relativity
A lot of people make the mistake (and I would guess that this is your error) that because they have set up some particular coordinate system, or used an existing system such as TAI time, Newton's laws must work in that coordinate system.
So the problem in these cases are not in relativity - it is in the assumption that Newton's laws must work in their coordiante system. This is a bad assumption.
Relativity points out otherwise - if you do not synchronize clocks according to Einstein's conventions, you will not have a coordinate system where you can apply Newton's laws, even at low velocities.
The "velocities" that one measures in a coordinate system that is not based on Einsteinian clock synchronization have an inherent spatial bias, a "preferred direction". They are not isotropic.
This means specifically that a mass m moving in one direction with a "coordinate velocity" v will not have the same momentum as a mass m moving in the opposite direction with a "coordinate velocity" v.
Another way of putting this is that if you were running an automobile race, automobiles would run faster in one direction than another.
The Einsteinan condition of using light to synchronize clocks is the same convention that's needed to run "fair" automobile races, ones in which no automobile has an advantage going in any particular direction - to use the technical term, an isotropic coordinate system.
Usually this gets simplified to the point of view of telling people that they "have to" use Einstein's method of synchronizing clocks. This is not a bad approach, however it's slightly over simplified. A more complete discussion includes the "or else", which is, as I described, the fact that your coordinate system won't be isotropic if you don't use Einstein's clock synchronization method.
I'd like to post some web references, but unfortunately I only have one which isn't very helpful - other than Einstein's original papers, I haven't seen much discussion about isotropy. Google finds a few crank pages, but nothing potentially useful, other than an abstract from a Physical review D paper by Clifford Will (and that's not very useful in abstract form, and I can't answer to how useful even the original would be not having seen it).