Because that's the nature of stiff members like bars. Bars can be stretched in tension, compressed, even bent by applying moments to the ends.
Ropes and wires can only sustain tension loads. Repeat after me: You can't push on a rope.
I'm curious: haven't you ever tried to build anything from scratch, played with Tinker Toys, hung a picture on a wall with a nail and some wire, heck even picked up a stick?
This is how we learn about the mechanical nature of different things, like bars, strings, rope, and the like. There's more to experience in life than banging keys on a keyboard.
I don't know what "moment about a point" means. You can evaluate moments only about an axis.