I've been talking to this girl for the past few weeks, and we've really been getting along. We even went to get drinks (tea, I'm only 17) on Wednesday at this one college. Things were going great, and I was ready to ask her to prom... (Saturday morning)--- I'm talking to her online, and she tells me that she is seeing someone. There was an awkward pause, and I said "oh really that's cool" but I was really mad. She went on and said "if i wasn't with this guy i'd want to be with you" and all that crap...but i was still upset. she was worried that i would get mad, but i told her things were ok. i called her later in the afternoon and told her not to worry about it, we can still be friends. she said ok, and she seemed relieved. finally, in the evening, i drafted an email that i'm ready to send to her now. i haven't sent it yet, because i'm not sure if i should. i pretty much explain to her my true feelings and why i think she was misleading. i'm afraid the email might scare her or come off kind of weird. do you all think i should just break off contact with her completely? or should i send her the email and risk her knowing what i really felt? she is a really sweet girl, so i'm confused please, please help me. i have no guidance or experience at all. anything!!!