1. There are some pictures here that show you the sort of patterns you get:
http://www.softinway.com/news/articles/Vibration-Analysis-of-Large-Steam-Turbines/3.asp (click on the links for pages 4 and 5)
2. A "flap" vibration mode is when the blade tip is moving approximately normal to the chord. An "edgewise" mode is when it is moving approximately parallel to the chord. "torsion" is when it is twisting. These are "exact" descriptions for the vibration modes of a flat plate. For real curved blades they are only approximate, but they are still useful.
3. If you do a vibration analysis of a single blade fixed at the root, the first few vibration modes can classified as "flap", "edgewise", or "torsion". If there are several flap modes the lowest frequency one is called 1F, the next one 2F, etc. If you take all the modes in order of their frequences, you will probably get a sequence something like 1F, 1T, 2F, 1E, etc.
For cyclic vibration, the blade modes will look similar, but the vibration frequencies may be a lot different because of the flexibility of the disk. All the cyclic modes where the blade motion is similar to the 1F mode would be called the "first family", the modes similar to the 1T the "second family", the modes similar to 2F the "third family", etc.
Because of the disk flexibility, it is quite common for frequency range of all the modes in one family (with different numbers of nodal diameters) to overlap the frequency range of other families. Describing a mode just by its frequency, or as "the 75th mode of the complete turbine wheel" isn't very useful, but a name like "36th engine order 2rd family" or "36th engine order 1st torsion" is a good description of what the mode looks like.